Place the coleslaw mix, mango, red onion, jalapeño, and cilantro in a large bowl.
In a separate bowl, whisk together the fresh lime juice, honey, salt, and ground black pepper. Pour the dressing over the mango slaw and gently toss the ingredients together.
Let the mango slaw rest for 10 minutes and up to one hour in the refrigerator. This helps the ingredients marinade together to develop more flavor. It also allows the salt and lime juice to soften and break down the cabbage.
Taste the mango slaw and add more lime juice, honey, salt, and pepper as needed. Place it in the refrigerator to chill again until you are ready to use, and for up to two hours, or the mango slaw will begin to wilt.